Since I was a young girl, I was taught to never depend on someone. Well, now I have a boyfriend so it has been a struggle not to say "no" or "Don't worry about it, I can do it myself." I've been trying my best to allow him to help me, but it's all very new to me. Though it'll take a while for me to flip the switch and realize that I don't have to do everything myself, I have made some progress. I let him do things for me without saying no to him because I know he wants to. And for me, that is a huge step from where I once was before I met him.
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